💔 The Most Painful Relationship Dynamic: FA DA 💔 Outside of relationships involving personality disorders, one of the most painful dynamics is the one between a Fearful-Avoidant (FA) and a Dismissive-Avoidant (DA). Why? Because this pairing is a never-ending cycle of push and pull, where both partners’ deepest wounds are constantly triggered. 🌀 The FA’s Wound: They crave deep emotional connection but fear betrayal. When they feel neglected, they pursue—but as soon as they get closeness, their